3 IMPORTANT LESSONS FOR YOUTH

3 IMPORTANT LESSONS FOR YOUTH ||Youth(The teenage and early twenties) is the age when a human is exposed to the real life problems.

From where he/she is starting to tranform from a child to an adult. The challenges and the problems faced by youth are those which prepare a person to fight against the real big problems of life which are waiting for us. As I am also a youth I have also faced those problems.

Someone said that, it is good to keep learning from mistakes but learning from another person's mistake is even better as it saves your time as well as other damages which could happen.

According to me, the three most important lessons which I learned from my experiences which another youth should also are as follows.

1. Failure is good. 

Every teenager or a youth has to pass from from the their school life as well as college or university life. In these institutions some students are able to score a good amount of marks but the students who are not able to score the good marks. They some times even gets failed in exam and gets demotivated, depressed and sometimes it gets worst up to that extent when they commit suicide.

But they does not know that, "the persons who gets failure in their early stages of life are luckier then others".  It is because now they are more sincere and will focus more on their core work. This will teach the person how to fight against the failure, even though it is an exam failure , it will teach how to cope with the problems which are approaching towards us in the future. 

2. Nothing is Permanent.

This is for youth as well as for the adults also. Some persons gets panic in the problematic situation. You have to keep your mind calm, be focused and just smile at your problem. This will give you a little bit positivity to stand against the problem.

I have good example of this." Some time the youths who thinks that they not so good in say socialising and see their peers having fun and gossips and they are sitting alone in the corner. This makes them depressed and feel low about them. But in this case, the person has to just support himself, be positive and the time will fly". As the nothing is permanent in life the, problems are not going to be permanent in your life, they have to go with time, all you need is patience.

According to Ramana Maharishi   "Let comes what comes, let go what goes"

3. Self Respect.

The feeling of love and belonging can be felt towards anyone in the teenage or during the youth. This is the normal part of life. It teaches us how to maintain relations and friendship when you are actually adult and you to maintain them with the most important persons of your lufe.

But, Sometimes the youth start to do so much effort to recieve the same feeling of belongingness from the other person, which ultimately leads him/her to lose their self respect. They just give their whole time to them and also wasting their time.

According to me, never give a person so much importance by which you lose your importance in yourself and lose all self respect and self esteem.

Rather use this energy in the field you want to make career or in the skills you want to own.

This will make you feel respected in yourself and you self esteem will be higher which ultimately will lead to a greater life and if you are focussed towards your life , others will automatically be attracted towards you.

These were the three most important lessons for a youth. Hope it will help you a little.So, lets be more focussed towards the goals and always learn from the failure.

"Let us think together, let us do together , let us grow together."

Thank you.